men who think that complimenting me through talking shit about another woman…*rolls eyes*. i’m not interested in a compliment that inherently puts down another.
I was at dinner with a guy i was talking to and his friends and he was talking so badly about a couple of women sitting at the opposite end of the table of us. at first, i decided he was just drunk and i would ignore it. but after awhile it started to bother me and when i expressed my annoyance he told me i should be happy he was talking about them like that. i was like, “why would i be happy?” and he said because i was so obviously a 10 and they were 4’s.
listen, first off, that would suggest that your opinion is so important to me that it would have some bearing on my ego. and not only would that be presumptuous and arrogant, but it would also be wrong. secondly, why in the world would that make me happy? as though my self esteem is wrapped up in other women and your thoughts of them. personally, i wouldn’t care if you thought they were pretty because that would have no bearing on my own personal knowledge of how damn badd i am. and thirdly, that shit was just rude as hell for no reason. i can’t stand people like that. to just dog out two women who you don’t know for no reason other than sport is such a turn off. and don’t try and disguise it as being “real.” no nigga, you’re just mean spirited as hell. get away from me.