Those things that are discreetly encouraged by a guy who doesn’t have enough cojones to keep his cojones in one girl. Because I’m not buying that whole, “I’ve been hurt before so this way is easier” act that guys try to maintain. I mean isn’t that something a female would say? Not that guys don’t have feelings but most of us females need MEN. A man would be comfortable dating one girl at a time or at least making the status of their relationship clear from the get-go.